{"id":606,"date":"2022-03-15T06:50:30","date_gmt":"2022-03-15T05:50:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jsituspravne.cz\/?p=606"},"modified":"2022-07-28T06:48:15","modified_gmt":"2022-07-28T04:48:15","slug":"strach-zit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jsituspravne.cz\/index.php\/2022\/03\/15\/strach-zit\/","title":{"rendered":"Strach \u017e\u00edt"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Anebo odvaha \u017e\u00edt? P\u0159i p\u0159edstav\u011b dal\u0161\u00edho v\u00fdvoje ud\u00e1lost\u00ed tyhle dv\u011b tvrzen\u00ed evokuj\u00ed \u00fapln\u011b rozch\u00e1zej\u00edc\u00ed se sc\u00e9n\u00e1\u0159e. A p\u0159esto k sob\u011b strach a odvaha maj\u00ed tak bl\u00edzko.<br>Ka\u017ed\u00fd zdrav\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk pozn\u00e1v\u00e1 strach a obavy. P\u0159irozenou reakci na hroz\u00edc\u00ed nebezpe\u010d\u00ed. Nepro\u017e\u00edvat tyhle emoce nen\u00ed b\u011b\u017en\u00fd a k zachov\u00e1n\u00ed vlastn\u00edho druhu ani \u017e\u00e1douc\u00ed. Jsou pro n\u00e1s sign\u00e1lem k probuzen\u00ed pozornosti. M\u00e1vaj\u00ed mi p\u0159ed o\u010dima stopkou a \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed: ,,Dej si pozor, tady se d\u011bje n\u011bco, v \u010dem mus\u00ed\u0161 b\u00fdt opatrn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed\u201c. To je cel\u00fd. <strong>Strach s\u00e1m o sob\u011b nen\u00ed \u0161patn\u00fd.<\/strong> Je dobr\u00fdm pomocn\u00edkem, ale jen do t\u00e9 m\u00edry, dokud nen\u00ed paralizuj\u00edc\u00ed. Nebo br\u00e1n\u00edc\u00ed pro\u017e\u00edvat \u017eivot na plno. (Skv\u011bl\u00e1 kn\u00ed\u017eka na tohle t\u00e9ma je \u010ceho p\u0159ed smrt\u00ed nejv\u00edce litujeme, doporu\u010duju v\u0161ema deseti).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"614\" src=\"https:\/\/jsituspravne.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/2022-03-15-06.05.07-1-1024x614.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-615\" srcset=\"https:\/\/jsituspravne.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/2022-03-15-06.05.07-1-1024x614.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/jsituspravne.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/2022-03-15-06.05.07-1-300x180.jpg 300w, https:\/\/jsituspravne.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/2022-03-15-06.05.07-1-768x460.jpg 768w, https:\/\/jsituspravne.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/2022-03-15-06.05.07-1-1536x920.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/jsituspravne.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/2022-03-15-06.05.07-1-2048x1227.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><br>Byli jsme z\u00e1rove\u0148 vybaveni n\u00e1strojem na jeho zvl\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed. Odvahou. To neznamen\u00e1 nem\u00edt obavy. <strong>Odvaha je s\u00edla, kter\u00e1 n\u00e1m pom\u00e1h\u00e1 je p\u0159ekonat, a\u0165 jsou jakkoliv siln\u00fd.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Zat\u00edmco jeden v sob\u011b sb\u00edr\u00e1 odvahu, aby dok\u00e1zal \u0159\u00edct jasn\u00e9 ne v situac\u00edch, kdy byl nau\u010den\u00fd se zachovat podle o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed druh\u00fdch nam\u00edsto vlastn\u00edho prosp\u011bchu. Pro n\u011bkoho p\u0159ekonat strach (t\u0159eba ze selh\u00e1n\u00ed) znamen\u00e1 p\u0159estat odkl\u00e1dat \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed a nevyh\u00fdbat se nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00fdm situac\u00edm. <strong>Strach b\u00fdt t\u00edm, k\u00fdm opravdu jsem.<\/strong> Pro soci\u00e1ln\u00edho tvora je toti\u017e nep\u0159ijet\u00ed doslova ohro\u017een\u00edm \u017eivota.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Zpochyb\u0148ov\u00e1n\u00ed vlastn\u00edch nebo i ciz\u00edch schopnost\u00ed, je taky jen p\u0159evle\u010dn\u00fd strach. Vnit\u0159n\u00ed strach plynouc\u00ed z vlastn\u00ed nejistoty, kterou v sob\u011b nos\u00edme. Vn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed strachy n\u011bkoho druh\u00e9ho, kdo se s n\u00e1mi z tohoto d\u016fvodu sna\u017e\u00ed manipulovat, aby n\u00e1s dovedl k chov\u00e1n\u00ed, kter\u00e9 je pro n\u011bj bezpe\u010dn\u00e9 nebo v\u00fdhodn\u00e9. Vystra\u0161en\u00fd tvor je snadno ovladateln\u00fd. A lidi jsou nejmanipulovateln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed pomoc\u00ed strachu. Pro d\u016fkazy nemus\u00edme chodit daleko.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I kdybychom se oprostili od sv\u011btov\u00fdch ud\u00e1lost\u00ed posledn\u00edch dn\u00ed, ani tak nejsou predikce z dlouhodob\u00e9ho hlediska pro lidstvo nijak povzbuzuj\u00edc\u00ed. Jen m\u011b d\u011bs\u00ed, \u017ee se ta zb\u00fdvaj\u00edc\u00ed doba zkracuje snad nad v\u0161echna o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed rychleji.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Po\u0159\u00e1d se mi nechce uv\u011b\u0159it, \u017ee by se lidstvo po tom v\u0161em, jakou urazilo cestu, nedok\u00e1zalo vypo\u0159\u00e1dat s n\u011bkolika (v glob\u00e1ln\u00edm m\u011b\u0159\u00edtku) od sebe zcela odpojen\u00fdmi jedinci, jejich\u017e vliv m\u00e1 celoplanet\u00e1rn\u00ed dopad. A jestli p\u0159eci jen ne, mo\u017en\u00e1 nejsme natolik vysp\u011blou civilizac\u00ed, aby d\u00e1valo smysl pokra\u010dovat v tomhle destruktivn\u00edm byt\u00ed. Posledn\u00edch p\u00e1r stovek let m\u011b nep\u0159esv\u011bd\u010duje o tom, \u017ee bychom byli pro planetu sp\u00ed\u0161 p\u0159\u00ednosem ne\u017e zk\u00e1zou. U\u017e moc dlouho si bereme v\u00edc ne\u017e vrac\u00edme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>V\u011b\u0159\u00edm a douf\u00e1m, \u017ee se bl\u00ed\u017e\u00edme zlomov\u00e9 hranici, kdy si vyt\u00e1hneme s prominut\u00edm hlavu ze z\u00e1dele a rozhl\u00eddneme se d\u00e1l ne\u017e za \u0161pi\u010dku sv\u00e9ho nosu. A jestli ne, tak z\u0159ejm\u011b nejsme je\u0161t\u011b na \u00fapln\u00e9m dn\u011b, abychom se mohli vzh\u016fru odrazit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Asi t\u011b\u017eko te\u010f tady na m\u00edst\u011b vymysl\u00edme \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed na celosv\u011btov\u00fd prosp\u011bch. Ale po mal\u00fdch kr\u016f\u010dc\u00edch m\u00e1me ve v\u00fdsledku ohromnou moc. V prvn\u00ed \u0159ad\u011b je pot\u0159eba se uklidnit. Rozhl\u00eddnout se. Uv\u011bdomit si, \u017ee jestli\u017ee pro\u017e\u00edv\u00e1m strach, je to pro m\u011b <strong>to nejintenz\u00edvn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed v danou chv\u00edli.<\/strong> Ale mnoh\u00e9 jin\u00e9 kolem m\u011b je v po\u0159\u00e1dku. Strach je jen malou sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed celku. Stra\u0161n\u011b z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na tom, \u010d\u00edm ten zb\u00fdvaj\u00edc\u00ed prostor zapln\u00edme. Ka\u017ed\u00fd nov\u00fd den m\u00e1me nespo\u010det p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost\u00ed p\u0159isp\u011bt ke spole\u010dn\u00e9 karm\u011b. A nebo chce\u0161-li na <strong>v\u00e1hu p\u0159\u00ed\u010din a n\u00e1sledk\u016f.<\/strong> Ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s tvo\u0159\u00edme spole\u010dn\u00fd sv\u011bt u\u017e jen svou prostou existenc\u00ed. Ale je to sv\u011bt, ve kter\u00e9m se d\u00e1 \u017e\u00edt?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nechci tady ps\u00e1t o strategi\u00edch zvl\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed strachu, k tomu jsou jin\u00fd str\u00e1nky. Chci otev\u00edrat prostor p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitostem, abychom si vlastn\u00ed strach mohli v\u016fbec uv\u011bdomit, neb\u00e1li se s n\u00edm zach\u00e1zet a nau\u010dili se ho prom\u011b\u0148ovat v n\u011bco dobr\u00e9ho. U d\u011bt\u00ed je to jednoduch\u00fd. Ty ho pro\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed naplno a i kdy\u017e ho neum\u00ed p\u0159\u00edmo rovnou pojmenovat, vyj\u00e1d\u0159\u00ed ho somaticky, skrz t\u011blo. Nej\u010dast\u011bji bolest\u00ed b\u0159\u00ed\u0161ka, hlavy nebo zvracen\u00edm. Zat\u00edmco &#8222;state\u010dn\u00ed&#8220; dosp\u011bl\u00e1ci se boj\u00ed si strach p\u0159iznat, a\u017e si v d\u016fsledku rozvinou t\u0159eba chronickou nemoc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cvi\u010dn\u011b si te\u010f p\u0159edstavuju budoucnost vych\u00e1zej\u00edc\u00ed ze strachu. A vz\u00e1p\u011bt\u00ed budoucnost tvo\u0159enou z radosti. Ned\u00e1v\u00e1 smysl b\u00e1t se za\u010d\u00ednat nov\u00e9 v\u011bci jen kv\u016fli tomu, \u017ee&#8230; (dosa\u010f si cokoliv omezuj\u00edc\u00edho ze sv\u00e9ho \u017eivota). Tvo\u0159\u00edme pro budoucnost, ale i pro samotnou radost z tvo\u0159en\u00ed. Ud\u011blat na cest\u011b chybu, nen\u00ed chyba. Jedin\u00e1 chyba by byla, p\u0159estat hledat \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pod\u00edvejme se na ten <strong>rozd\u00edl v budoucnosti tvo\u0159en\u00e9 z radosti a ze strachu.<\/strong> J\u00e1 vol\u00edm tu z mo\u017enost\u00ed, kter\u00e1 m\u011b neblokuje, ale umo\u017e\u0148uje mi tvo\u0159it. Otev\u00edr\u00e1 prostor pro vytv\u00e1\u0159en\u00ed dobr\u00e9ho, omezen\u00fd jen t\u00edm, kolik m\u00e1m sil. Najednou obavy u\u017e nejsou p\u0159ek\u00e1\u017ekou, ale startovn\u00ed metou p\u0159ipom\u00ednaj\u00edc\u00ed d\u016fvod k p\u0159ekon\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed t\u011bch p\u0159ek\u00e1\u017eek na cest\u011b k lep\u0161\u00edm z\u00edt\u0159k\u016fm.<br><br><strong>Bu\u010fme odv\u00e1\u017en\u00ed \u017e\u00edt to dobr\u00e9.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\"><em><strong>Smyslem \u017eivota nen\u00ed pro\u017e\u00edt ho v obav\u00e1ch,<br>mus\u00ed\u0161 se nau\u010dit nechat v\u011bci plynout,<br>nechat p\u0159ij\u00edt, co p\u0159ij\u00edt m\u00e1,<br>nechat j\u00edt, co odch\u00e1z\u00ed.<\/strong><br>(z kn\u00ed\u017eky Hlem\u00fd\u017ed\u00edm tempem od \u010cou Cung-wej)<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Anebo odvaha \u017e\u00edt? P\u0159i p\u0159edstav\u011b dal\u0161\u00edho v\u00fdvoje ud\u00e1lost\u00ed tyhle dv\u011b tvrzen\u00ed evokuj\u00ed \u00fapln\u011b rozch\u00e1zej\u00edc\u00ed se sc\u00e9n\u00e1\u0159e. A p\u0159esto k sob\u011b strach a odvaha maj\u00ed tak bl\u00edzko.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":615,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-606","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-neobycejky"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/jsituspravne.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/606","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/jsituspravne.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/jsituspravne.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jsituspravne.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jsituspravne.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=606"}],"version-history":[{"count":12,"href":"https:\/\/jsituspravne.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/606\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":731,"href":"https:\/\/jsituspravne.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/606\/revisions\/731"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jsituspravne.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/615"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/jsituspravne.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=606"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jsituspravne.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=606"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jsituspravne.cz\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=606"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}